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Have you Ever wondered why Men, Black Men in General Cant Be The perfect spouse?
In many cases we wonder what we are doing wrong and why we can't just run into the perfect man that'll not only sweep us off our feet, but keep us there. We may believe that we are the ones to blame (maybe I'm not cute enough, maybe I'm not accomplished enough, maybe if I'd just change this he'll be more than likely to change that). STOP IT. More times than none the problem is not you. It's deeply seeded and it's probably been there before you ever knew this person existed. Lets just focus on how most Black Men were raised. Firstly, Sad but true most were raised in one parent homes with just a mother. They've never had a man teach them how to be one. Secondly, while growing up being raised by a single mom they've probably watched their mom go through a lot of ups and downs. One of the ups and downs probably included different relationships with different men, which probably included a lot off negative situations. In cases like these.. the psyche of a young male that sees his mom get disrespected will likely grow up to disrespect her and any female he comes in contact with.
Normally we blame ourselves but the truth is we have nothing to do with a cheating man in most cases. Well definitely in the cases in which these men weren't in the right conditions to learn how to be a man. All we can say is learn about a man before you settle down. Find out the way he was raised and identify issues he may have developed. Make sure he solved these issues or seek help to help him solve issues that he may have developed. Only then can you find the love that you want a man to provide you with.
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