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Are We Mothers Responsible for The Irresponsibility of Men?
By Robyn Moses
I know this is a touchy subject, but I have to approach it. So many mothers are raising sons alone. Yes, the fathers have walked away, and many of these fathers seem to not care what happens with their son’s mental and emotional state in lieu of their absence. However, mothers are left to pick up the pieces. I hear so many mothers always talking about they are the mother and the father. Well they are not doing a very good job. Why is it that so many men are growing up and not taking care of the children that they father? Why is it that these men are not concerned with supporting their children financially or otherwise.
Maybe mothers are giving the sons the wrong impression that a man is not needed in a home to care for the children. Sons are hearing this rhetoric about the mother being both parents as if it is possible. We must teach our sons that their children needs them. They are important in the shaping of the child. Their input in nurturing their children is required. We must not make our sons feel unimportant as if they could be a ghost in their children’s lives, appearing when and if they get ready. Our sons are important to the stability of the family, and they sure are important in their childrens’ lives. Sons carry the family name, they will also be the head of the family, they must know that they are respected, and expected to take care of the children they father.
Your son has to be responsibility. He has to know how to take care of himself, and passed that nurturing on to his sons. He will not be any good to any woman if he thinks that all is required of him is to be. Being is so much more, it is who you are. Talk to your sons about relationships and how to be a man. Manhood is not defined by how many children you create, it is defined by who those children become. So many men are suffering the loss of their own fathers, and have not healed. No one has told them that their own fathers are irresponsible, and they should not grow up to be like them.
Mothers you have to be careful of your choices in fathering children. You have to be careful not to choose an irresponsible man to father your children. You have to get on your grind, and make sure that your sons know they are loved regardless of their father’s choice, and they are not expected to become a replica of an irresponsible father. They must know that they can and will father children, and they must make it their business to take part in those children’s lives.
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